love is never selfish. it is NEVER selfish. if you're unsure about what falls under the category of selfishness: it means, love does not mean keeping ties on someone because you're afraid to let them go. love does not mean "this will make me happy". love does not mean fucking around, careless and continuous mistakes and still trying to make things happen because you're afraid you will fall to pieces without them.

no. that is not what it is about.

love is about giving so much that it hurts. love does not always mean being happy and whole. love means to break yourself to make someone else whole. love means constant sacrifice for ones happiness. and if you're broken, and hurting because you loved so much... then God will fill in the cracks. that's what it's about.

and if you can't let them go, you simply do not love them enough.

so please, stop trying to convince yourself that you love them if you cant even sacrifice your peace for them. you cannot know or feel love if you cannot empty yourself out enough to receive it.

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